2) Going to a dating agency is like going to a clothing store and asking for a shirt in size L. The salesperson (dating agency) might have size L (Asian, European, American size) which might fit you, but usually not perfectly. They will then try to sell you something you didn’t want in the first place,
“Thanks for paying me before I gave you what you were looking for. Unfortunately sir, we don’t have size L (the Maggie Q girl) you are looking for… why don’t you take this size M (Ugly Betty) instead because you don’t have much of a choice.â€
Because you made an investment already, you SETTLE. If you are a SETTLER, then the TDD way is not for you. Best you leave now and never come back until you respect yourself enough to fight for what you want.
Coming to TDD is like going to a tailor. You want a size L? Let me tell you something mate. There is danger in the details. Let me make sure your sleeves are of the right fit and length, your collars complement your neck and face and the fit of the shirt complements your physique. There is not one-size-fits-all solution in the world of dating that can beat a fully personalized and customized development plan that is catered to YOU. Let me not help you find a solution to your problem, let me make you succeed magnificently.